My Colleague Came to My Date with Her 3 Kids in Tow & Ruined It - When I Confronted Her, She Boldly Said, 'You Should Thank Me'
The evening had everything I had hoped for: candlelight, wine, and the chance to connect more deeply. But when my coworker suddenly entered with her children, everything changed, and I faced an unexpected truth.
The third date with Susan was meant to be perfect. We met on Tinder — her profile was a mix of humor and natural beauty. After two great outings and a peaceful walk in the park, I was ready to move forward.
That night, I chose a small Italian restaurant away from busy streets. It was an ideal setting for quiet conversation over wine and pasta.
Susan arrived wearing a navy dress that fit her well, with her hair flowing over her shoulders. She smiled, and I thought, This could be it.
Just as the waiter placed a basket of bread, the door swung open, drawing my attention. I hesitated at first, but then I recognized the voice.
“Oh, hi, Rob! What a surprise to see you here!”
I froze. Standing at the door was Linda from accounting, dressed brightly. Her three kids clung to her, noisy and energetic.
“Linda?” I said, blinking.
She approached with her children heading toward our table. “You didn’t tell me you were coming out tonight!” she exclaimed.
Susan looked back and forth between Linda and me, confusion evident. “Is that a friend of yours?” she asked cautiously.
“Colleague,” I replied, trying to smile as Linda sat her kids down at our table.
“It’s busy tonight,” Linda said casually, taking a breadstick. “I thought I’d join you. Do you mind?”
I minded a lot. Really, I did.

Linda had always been a mystery. A single mother of three—ages two, eight, and twelve—she had been through two failed relationships. She was charming and intimidating at the same time.
In the office, she attracted attention with her intelligence and beauty, though she kept her distance. I admired her strength, her dedication to her children, her ability to manage chaos gracefully.
But that admiration was just professional respect. I assumed a woman like Linda was out of my league.
Tonight, as she slid into the booth with her kids, her presence felt overwhelming rather than inspiring.
“Linda, what are you doing here?” I asked softly, glancing at Susan, whose expression shifted from confusion to irritation.
She responded casually, resting her hand on mine. I instinctively pulled back. “You promised to watch the kids tonight, and now you’re here... with her?” she said, nodding toward Susan, as if she were unwelcome.
“Excuse me?” Susan’s voice sharpened.
Linda shrugged with a grin. “We’re a family.” She pointed at her children, happily munching on bread. “They were so excited to see you tonight!”
“I never promised—” I started.
She cut me off. “Really, Rob? You’re going to pretend this isn’t happening?”
“_What_ are you talking about?” Susan demanded, standing with disbelief and anger.
Linda smugly grinned. “I didn’t mean to ruin your date, Susan. But you should know who you’re with. He’s been leading me—and his kids—on for months.”
My stomach dropped. “What? Linda, stop this!” I hissed, feeling eyes on us from nearby tables.

Susan grabbed her purse. “Y’all clearly have... unfinished business,” she said coldly, glaring at me. Then she walked out.
I moved to follow her, but Linda’s little girl clung to my leg.
The restaurant quieted.
I looked at Linda, angry. “What are you doing? You just spoiled my evening!”
She didn’t seem bothered. Instead, she leaned back, her toddler happily eating breadstick. “You should thank me.”
“Thank you?” I repeated, frustrated. “For humiliating me publicly?”
Linda calmly took out her phone and scrolled. “No. For saving you.”
“Saving me?” I asked, stunned.
She turned her phone to me, showing a picture. “Recognize this?”
I squinted. It was blurry, but I knew the face. “That’s... Susan. Why show me this?”
“This,” Linda said, zooming in, “is a mugshot.”
The words didn’t hit me immediately. “A mugshot?”
Linda nodded, serious. “My brother’s a policeman. Last night, I stopped by the station to hand in some papers. While I was there, I saw her face on a wanted poster. She’s been stealing from men—scamming them out of thousands. I didn’t connect it until I saw your Instagram photo before your date. I called my brother. She’s probably being arrested right now.”
My head spun. “You’re joking.”

“I’m serious,” she said softly. “I couldn’t let her take advantage of you. You’re a good guy. You don’t deserve that.”
I sat still, stunned. My anger faded into shock, doubt, possibly gratitude. “Why didn’t you tell me? Why all the drama?”
She sighed, looking at her children. “I tried calling you before your date, but you didn’t answer. When I saw you here, I panicked. I didn’t want her to slip away. I did what I thought was best.”
I lowered my head, rubbing my forehead. “So... she’s a scammer?”
“Gone,” Linda said firmly. “And you’re welcome.”
I stared, feeling torn. If what she said was true, she saved me from a disaster. But her way of doing it—what she did—made me unsure if I could forgive her.
The truth hit me like a truck. Susan—charming, clever, beautiful—was a con artist. Linda, with her kids and bold entrance, had just protected me from a dangerous scam.
The restaurant went silent, thick with unspoken feelings. For a moment, I couldn’t meet her eyes. My mind was a whirlwind of thanks, embarrassment, and confusion.
Her oldest boy broke the silence, kicking his legs under the table. “Are we getting pizza now?”
I couldn’t help but laugh, a real laugh that broke the tension.
Linda grinned, leaning back. “You should thank me now.”
I shook my head, amused and annoyed. “You’re unbelievable.”
She shrugged. “And yet, you’re not getting conned out of your money.”

Looking at her—her tired but happy face, her kids hanging on her words—I sensed something shift. Linda wasn’t just the chaos-causing woman who interrupted my night. She was something more. She’d saved me tonight, and she had opened my eyes to what I’d missed.
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She looked at me, her smile genuine. “Want to buy us dinner? All of you?”
I blinked, surprised. “You want to buy us dinner? After all this?”
“Yeah,” I said, glancing at the kids. “You’ve earned it. And honestly? I’d like the company.”
Her oldest grinned. “Pizza!”
She considered, then nodded. “Okay, but only if we get dessert.”
“Deal,” I said, smiling back.
A couple of years later, Linda and I are still together. I’ve adopted her children, and they remind me every day what love really means.
And Linda? She always insists I should thank her for that night.
And I do, every day.